Florence Irene Beshaw1
F, b. 9 March 1901, d. 22 July 1975
Florence Irene Beshaw was born on 9 March 1901 at Fontanet, Vigo Co., IN.1 She married Clarence J. Kramer in 1920. Florence Irene Beshaw died on 22 July 1975 at Vinton, Benton Co., IA, at age 74. She was buried in July 1975 at Saint Marys Cemetery, Benton Co., IA, Findagrave #53362210.
Citations
- [S4756] 1940 Federal Census, Benton County, Iowa. Microfilm Image, NARA Series T627, Roll 1138.
Leah Besore
F, b. circa 1832
Leah Besore was born circa 1832. She married Abraham Metz, son of Abraham Metz and Veronica Knisely, on 19 January 1850 at Chambersburg, Franklin Co., PA.
Children of Leah Besore and Abraham Metz
- George Benton Metz b. c 1851
- Fannie E. Metz b. 1853
- William Abram Metz b. 1856
- John Wesley Metz b. May 1858
- Matthew Simpson Metz b. Feb 1861
- Edward N. Metz b. 1863
- Delia Metz b. 25 Dec 1864
- Lilly M. Metz b. 1865
Anna Maria Best
F, b. 28 February 1750/51, d. 2 July 1827
Anna Maria Best was born on 28 February 1750/51 at Montgomery Co., PA. She was the daughter of Johann Wilhelm Best and Anna Susanna Schaeffer. Anna Maria Best married Ludwig Kleppinger, son of Johann Georg Klöppinger and Anna Margretha Schreiner, in 1768 at Northampton Co., PA. Anna Maria Best died on 2 July 1827 at Somerset Co., PA, at age 76. She was buried in July 1827 at Stone Church Cemetery, Kreidersville, Northampton Co., PA.
Children of Anna Maria Best and Ludwig Kleppinger
- Maria Barbara Kleppinger b. 1 Mar 1769, d. b 1829
- Anthony Kleppinger+ b. 13 Mar 1774, d. 14 Jun 1832
- Maria Kleppinger b. 15 Apr 1776, d. 29 Apr 1835
- Maria Catharina Kleppinger b. 1 Jun 1778, d. 11 Nov 1844
- Elias Kleppinger b. 19 Sep 1782, d. 28 Apr 1842
- Jacob Kleppinger b. 28 Mar 1785
- William Kleppinger b. 8 Feb 1788, d. 18 Aug 1863
- Lewis William Kleppinger+ b. 16 Jan 1790, d. 11 Mar 1842
Delila A. Best
F, b. 11 June 1820, d. 9 March 1847
Delila A. Best was born on 11 June 1820 at Greene Co., OH, Per findagrave.com record for Old Radical Cemetery (defunct), Cairo, Tippecanoe County, Indiana. She was the daughter of Isaac Best and Jane Jackson.1 Delila A. Best married Isaac Klepinger, son of John George Kleppinger and Elizabeth Benkard, on 3 January 1839. Delila A. Best died on 9 March 1847 at Tippecanoe Co., IN, at age 26 As a result of childbirth of Isaac Newton Klepinger. She was buried in March 1847 at Old Radical Cemetery (defunct), Cairo, Tippecanoe Co., IN.
Children of Delila A. Best and Isaac Klepinger
- William Klepinger1 b. c 1840, d. b Jun 1860
- Ancil B. Klepinger1 b. c 1842
- Elizabeth Klepinger1 b. c 1845
- Isaac Newton Klepinger1 b. Mar 1847
Citations
- [S2816] 1850 Federal Census, Tippecanoe County, Indiana. Microfilm Image, NARA Series M432, Roll 175.
Donald Otto Best1
M, b. 20 February 1934, d. 17 April 2003
Donald Otto Best was born on 20 February 1934 at Urichsville, Tuscarawas Co., OH.1 He was the son of Otto L. Best and Velma A. Starkey.1 Donald Otto Best died on 17 April 2003 at Apple Valley, San Bernardino Co., CA, at age 69.
Note: Married, three children.
Note: Married, three children.
Citations
- [S2793] 1940 Federal Census, Tuscarawas County, Ohio. Microfilm Image, NARA Series T627, Roll 3160.
Eileen Best1
F, b. circa 1922
Eileen Best was born circa 1922 at Tuscarawas Co., OH.1 She was the daughter of Floyd Leroy Best and Eva Lena Burdette.1
Citations
- [S2792] 1930 Federal Census, Tuscarawas County, Ohio. Microfilm Image, NARA Series T626, Roll 1886; FHL #2341620.
Ernest Best
M, b. 14 April 1920, d. 9 June 1920
Ernest Best was born on 14 April 1920 at Urichsville, Tuscarawas Co., OH. He was the son of Floyd Leroy Best and Eva Lena Burdette. Ernest Best died on 9 June 1920 at Urichsville, Tuscarawas Co., OH.
Estella Best1
F, b. circa 1903
Child of Estella Best and Joseph Wieging
- Colleen Ann Wieging+1 b. 23 Nov 1932, d. 12 Sep 2003
Citations
- [S3740] 1940 Federal Census, Van Wert County, Ohio. Microfilm Image, NARA Series T627, Roll 3163.
Floyd Leroy Best1
M, b. 21 July 1892, d. 24 August 1981
Floyd Leroy Best was born on 21 July 1892 at Lorain Co., OH.1 He was the son of Jesse Marion Best and Alma I. Wardell.1 Floyd Leroy Best married Eva Lena Burdette, daughter of Jasper Burdette and Eliza Jane Bragg. Floyd Leroy Best died on 24 August 1981 at Sarasota, Sarasota Co., FL, at age 89.
Children of Floyd Leroy Best and Eva Lena Burdette
- Otto L. Best+2 b. 20 Dec 1911, d. 4 Apr 1997
- Iona Eliza Best+2 b. 19 Apr 1917, d. 27 Jul 1995
- Ernest Best b. 14 Apr 1920, d. 9 Jun 1920
- Eileen Best2 b. c 1922
Iona Eliza Best1
F, b. 19 April 1917, d. 27 July 1995
Iona Eliza Best was born on 19 April 1917 at Tuscarawas Co., OH.1 She was the daughter of Floyd Leroy Best and Eva Lena Burdette.1 Iona Eliza Best married Jack Wilbert Craig, son of Robert H. Craig and Nancy E. (?), on 14 January 1935 at Brooke Co., WV. Iona Eliza Best died on 27 July 1995 at Tuscarawas Co., OH, at age 78.
Child of Iona Eliza Best and Jack Wilbert Craig
- Jack Wilbert Craig2 b. 3 Jul 1935, d. 11 Nov 1997
Isaac Best1
M, b. 27 February 1797, d. 16 June 1855
Isaac Best was born on 27 February 1797 at Virginia.1 He married Jane Jackson on 19 September 1819 at Greene Co., OH. Isaac Best lived in 1850 at Wabash Twp., Tippecanoe Co., IN.1 He died on 16 June 1855 at Tippecanoe Co., IN, at age 58.
Note: Information from JeReese(3) genealogy prepared by John Reese, online at ancestry.com.
Note: Information from JeReese(3) genealogy prepared by John Reese, online at ancestry.com.
Child of Isaac Best and Jane Jackson
- Delila A. Best+1 b. 11 Jun 1820, d. 9 Mar 1847
Citations
- [S2816] 1850 Federal Census, Tippecanoe County, Indiana. Microfilm Image, NARA Series M432, Roll 175.
Jesse Marion Best1
M, b. 9 April 1869, d. 17 March 1942
Jesse Marion Best was born on 9 April 1869 at Tuscarawas Co., OH.1 He married Alma I. Wardell on 10 January 1892 at Tuscarawas Co., OH. Occupation: Railroad conductor in 1900 at Lorain, Lorain Co., OH.1 Jesse Marion Best died on 17 March 1942 at Urichsville, Tuscarawas Co., OH, at age 72.
Note: Some information from Lau Family Tree genealogy prepared by talau1, online at ancestry.com.
Note: Some information from Lau Family Tree genealogy prepared by talau1, online at ancestry.com.
Child of Jesse Marion Best and Alma I. Wardell
- Floyd Leroy Best+1 b. 21 Jul 1892, d. 24 Aug 1981
Citations
- [S977] 1900 Federal Census, Lorain County, Ohio. Microfilm Image, NARA Series T623, Roll 1295; FHL #1241295.
Johann Wilhelm Best
M, b. 30 November 1713, d. 24 November 1762
Johann Wilhelm Best was born on 30 November 1713 at Palatinate or Switzerland. He married Anna Susanna Schaeffer in 1732 at Pfungstadt (probably), Hessen Darmstadt, Germany. Johann Wilhelm Best died on 24 November 1762 at Lehigh Twp., Northampton Co., PA, at age 48.
Children of Johann Wilhelm Best and Anna Susanna Schaeffer
- Anna Maria Best+ b. 28 Feb 1750/51, d. 2 Jul 1827
- Maria Barbara Best+ b. 1754, d. 3 Mar 1831
Louis Phillip Best
M, b. 23 July 1901, d. 3 September 1956
Louis Phillip Best was born on 23 July 1901 at Davenport, Scott Co., IA. He was educated; State University of Iowa graduate, Harvard School of Business Administration graduate. He married Sabra Lewis on 26 April 1927 at Indianapolis, Marion Co., IN. Louis Phillip Best died on 3 September 1956 at Chevy Chase, MD, at age 55.
Child of Louis Phillip Best and Sabra Lewis
- Stephen Lewis Best+ b. 18 Feb 1933, d. 31 Jan 2008
Maria Barbara Best
F, b. 1754, d. 3 March 1831
Maria Barbara Best was born in 1754 at Lehigh, Northampton Co., PA. She was the daughter of Johann Wilhelm Best and Anna Susanna Schaeffer. Maria Barbara Best married Friedrich Kleppinger, son of Johann Georg Klöppinger and Anna Margretha Schreiner, in 1772 at Zion Church, Kreidersville, Northampton Co., PA. Maria Barbara Best died on 3 March 1831 at Shippensburg, Cumberland Co., PA.
Children of Maria Barbara Best and Friedrich Kleppinger
- Maria Catherine Clippinger+ b. 6 Oct 1773, d. 13 Apr 1832
- Anthony Clippinger+ b. 15 Mar 1774, d. 20 Sep 1823
- George Clippinger+ b. 5 Nov 1775, d. 22 Feb 1843
- Frederick Clippinger b. 27 Oct 1777
- Anna Maria Clippinger b. 21 Mar 1779
- John Clippinger+ b. 20 Nov 1784
- Susannah Clippinger b. 10 Nov 1788
Otto L. Best1
M, b. 20 December 1911, d. 4 April 1997
Otto L. Best was born on 20 December 1911 at Urichsville, Tuscarawas Co., OH.1 He was the son of Floyd Leroy Best and Eva Lena Burdette.1 Otto L. Best married Velma A. Starkey, daughter of Andrew Peter Starkey and Elizabeth May Gibson, circa 1932. Otto L. Best lived in April 1940 at Maple Street, Gnadenhutten, Tuscarawas Co., OH.2 He died on 4 April 1997 at Cedarville, Modoc Co., CA, at age 85.
Child of Otto L. Best and Velma A. Starkey
- Donald Otto Best2 b. 20 Feb 1934, d. 17 Apr 2003
Stephen Lewis Best
M, b. 18 February 1933, d. 31 January 2008
Stephen Lewis Best was born on 18 February 1933 at Davenport, Scott Co., IA. He was the son of Louis Phillip Best and Sabra Lewis. Stephen Lewis Best died on 31 January 2008 at age 74.
Strauther Albert Best1
M, b. 12 September 1884, d. October 1972
Strauther Albert Best was born on 12 September 1884 at Floyd Co., IN, WW II draft registration.1 He married Dora A. Purkhiser, daughter of William Jasper Purkheiser and Sarah A. Jacobs, on 11 November 1908 at Floyd Co., IN, Dora remarried to Strauther A. Best on 11 NOV 1908, Floyd County, IN. Strauther Albert Best died in October 1972 at age 88.
Citations
- [S2106] 1910 Federal Census, Floyd County, Indiana. Microfilm Image, NARA Series T624, Roll 349; FHL #1374362.
Susannah Best
F
Susannah Best married Daniel Wiseman.
Child of Susannah Best and Daniel Wiseman
- Naomi Ruth Wiseman+ b. 21 Jul 1920
William Homer Best
M, b. December 1941, d. 2 January 2007
William Homer Best was born in December 1941. He died on 2 January 2007 at Arlington, Tarrant Co., TX, at age 65.
Irene M. Bestner
F, b. 23 April 1898, d. 8 January 1984
Irene M. Bestner was born on 23 April 1898. She married Howard A. Saum, son of Jacob Clement Saum and Amanda Rosella Lucas. Irene M. Bestner died on 8 January 1984 at age 85.
Children of Irene M. Bestner and Howard A. Saum
- John Saum b. 16 May 1922
- Ralph Saum b. 16 May 1922
Emma L. Bestor
F
Emma L. Bestor married William Bell Tallman, son of Thomas Bell Tallman and Frances Ann Gillespie, on 28 December 1875.
Child of Emma L. Bestor and William Bell Tallman
- William Lester Tallman b. 11 Nov 1886
Ellen Rose Betebenner
F, b. 22 May 1842, d. 9 January 1911
Ellen Rose Betebenner was born on 22 May 1842 at Maryland.1 She married Abner Newcomer on 3 December 1863 at Ogle Co., IL. Ellen Rose Betebenner died on 9 January 1911 at age 68. She was buried in January 1911 at Fairmount Cemetery, Polo, Ogle Co., IL, Findagrave #88234423.
Child of Ellen Rose Betebenner and Abner Newcomer
- Etta Rebecca Newcomer+ b. 23 Nov 1864, d. 1953
Citations
- [S520] 1870 Federal Census, Ogle County, Illinois. Microfilm Image, NARA Series M593, Roll 265; FHL #545764.
Max Earl Betenbender
M, b. 31 May 1946, d. 20 September 2019
Max Earl Betenbender was born on 31 May 1946 at Manchester, Delaware Co., IA; son of Glen Luverne "Pete" and Blanche Jane (Bliss) Betenbender. He began military service in October 1965 Vietnam War service, U.S. Army
The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Wednesday, 27 OCT 1965; p.45; (Newspapers.com):
Armed Forces
Thirty Linn county draft registrants were inducted into the armed forces last week at Fort Des Moines to fill the county's October draft call. .........................
[Included Max E. Betenbender, Coggon]
He died on 20 September 2019 at Hiawatha, Linn Co., IA, at age 73
[:CR]Obituary -- (Findagrave.com):
Max Betenbender, 73, of Coggon, Iowa, passed away peacefully in his sleep on Friday, September 20, 2019, at the Dennis & Donna Oldorf Hospice House of Mercy, Hiawatha, Iowa.
Family will greet friends from 4 – 8 p.m. Wednesday, September 25, 2019, at Murdoch Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Marion, Iowa. A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Thursday, September 26, 2019, at the funeral home, officiated by Pastor Nathan Eddy, with visitation one hour prior to service. Burial will follow at Coggon Cemetery, Coggon, Iowa.
Max was born May 31, 1946, in Manchester, Iowa, to Glen “Pete” and Blanche (Bliss) Betenbender. He graduated from Coggon High School.
Max served honorably in United States Army during the Vietnam War, from 1965 to 1967.
He was united in marriage to Donna Johnson on November 7, 1970, in Independence, Iowa, at Hope Wesleyan Church.
Max was the president of Betenbender Manufacturing.
He was a member of the Coggon American Legion Post #362 and the Antique Car Club. Max collected army vehicles, including two army tanks.
He loved traveling.
Max was a friend to all, always willing to help. He will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved him.
Max is survived and lovingly remembered by his wife of 48 years, Donna Betenbender; daughter, Teresa Betenbender; two grandchildren, Courtney (David) Blaber and Cameron Klouda; three great-grandchildren, Isabella, Gabriella and Stephen Blaber; and many nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his parents; son, Ted Betenbender; brother, Larry Betenbender; and baby Blaber.
In lieu of flowers, memorials in Max’s memory may be directed to the family to be designated later.
Murdoch Funeral Home & Cremation Service - Marion.
He was buried in September 2019 at Coggon Cemetery, Coggon, Linn Co., IA, Findagrave #203170116.
Note: The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Wednesday, 03 JUN 1987; pp.18-21; (Newspapers.com):
Betenbenders Travel in Force
Max and Donna Betenbender of Coggon have no intentions of waiting until retirement to travel.
Since 1981, they have been in Berlin and Vienna, and -- along with their two children -- in Seoul, South Korea; Bristol, England; Florida; and New Zealand.
"A lot of people put off things to do when they retire. Then something happens, either financially or medically, and they can't do them. Then they don't have those memories," explains Max, who was born and Reared in Coggon.
Recently, Max, general manager of Betenbender manufacturing, suffered an on-the-job injury from which he has a 50-50 chance of recovering. He says if things had "not been favorable for us," they still would have had the memory of last summer's three-week vacation with their children. "How many people can say they spent three weeks with their kids?"
Yet, Donna, 38, says she doubts they would have done any traveling on their own. Explains her husband: "We don't like tours, visiting this place one day and that place the next."
They have done their world traveling through Friendship Force, an international organization that promotes world peace through understanding of other countries and their customs. Max calls it "a people-to-people exchange."
Max and his family heard about the organization through one of his employees, whose sister was involved in the Dubuque chapter.
Max's parents, Pete and Blanch, went to Guatemala in 1980 with the Dubuque group. "Because my folks had a very good experience, it took a lot of anxiety out of going (for us)," says Max.
Friendship Force travelers usually schedule two weeks in a country. The first week is spent with a host family. The second week also may be spent with the same family, or people may travel on their own or with other members of Friendship Force. Travelers also have the option of returning home.
During the Betenbenders' second week in Austria, their host family suggested they hire a taxi driver who knew a lot about the country. The daughter of the family, who had studied English for seven years, accompanied the group as interpreter.
"We took off and drove 800 miles in eight days," said max. The trip was mostly confined to back roads or side roads in Austria that looked promising for scenery. "We made decisions as we went," he continues.
When they stopped for the night, "our driver would go in and bargain for rooms for us," says max. "A couple of times, we went in and they said they would have charged more money if they had known we were Americans."
The trip cost each of the nine members of the group $110, plus their rooms and what they ate.
Max and Donna say that when they compared visits on the return trip to America, other Friendship Force people were envious of how they'd spent heir time -- including those who took organized tours.
But the impromptu trip around Austria isn't the only benefit the Betenbenders have seen from their Friendship Force association. "We've met some very nice people, says Donna, noting that they write to most of them.
The Betenbenders recall one friendship that had a rocky start.
The family they visited in Berlin had a teen-age daughter who seemed anti-American. "She didn't say 10 words to us," recalls Max. "She didn't want anything to do with us. She acted like we were imposing on her parents.
When Friendship Force had an exchange with Des Moines, the Berlin family spent a week there. When they arrived in Coggon for the second week of their visit, "it wasn't the same girl," continues Max. The teen-ager had undergone a complete change in her attitude. She had hugs and kisses for everyone.
Because of her positive experience in America, she returned home and talked with her friends who were anti-American, she could tell them, "We've got nice friend there who've given us a nice time," says Max.
The Betenbenders also were hosts to their English family on a tour of New England. "I wish more would come this way," says Donna wistfully.
In addition to their Friendship Force activities, the Betenbenders also provide a "getaway" retreat for a couple from Taiwan and have been hosts to a Swedish exchange student, Stefan Bjurnemark of Eslov, since August.
Donna and Max have been members of the Cedar Rapids Friendship Force since it started, although they've taken trips with the groups from Dubuque, Davenport and Portland, Ore. Max says the organization prefers to keep its groups to around 40. "If you don't go with one group, you can go with another."
When the Betenbenders go, they don't go empty handed. They fill one suitcase with handmade Iowa crafts, cookbooks (and the appropriate non-metric measuring utensils), wood items made by Max's father and toy tractors.
Max grins as he recalls his Korean host and his host's friend, both gentlemen in their 40s, rolling toy tractors back and forth to each other like enthusiastic children.
Because so many of their experiences with the group have been positive, Donna and Max would like to become more involved in the Cedar Rapids group. However, living 30 mils away limits that involvement.
"We'll try to do what we can to promote Friendship Force," says max, adding that even though he's been on five trips, "I'm ready to go again."
The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Sunday, 29 OCT 1995; p.101; (Newspapers.com):
Betenbender
COGGON -- Max and Donna Betenbender, Coggon, will observe their 25th wedding anniversary next Sunday with a reception and dance from 5:30 to 10 p.m. at Camp Wapsi Y, Coggon. The couple were married Nov. 7, 1970.
The former Donna Johnson and Max Betenbender exchanged vows at Hope Wesleyan Church, Independence.
They have two children: Ted Betenbender and Teresa (sic) Klouda, both of Coggon; and a grandchild, Courtney Klouda.
All family and friends are welcome to share this celebration. No gifts, please.
The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Wednesday, 27 OCT 1965; p.45; (Newspapers.com):
Armed Forces
Thirty Linn county draft registrants were inducted into the armed forces last week at Fort Des Moines to fill the county's October draft call. .........................
[Included Max E. Betenbender, Coggon]
He died on 20 September 2019 at Hiawatha, Linn Co., IA, at age 73
[:CR]Obituary -- (Findagrave.com):
Max Betenbender, 73, of Coggon, Iowa, passed away peacefully in his sleep on Friday, September 20, 2019, at the Dennis & Donna Oldorf Hospice House of Mercy, Hiawatha, Iowa.
Family will greet friends from 4 – 8 p.m. Wednesday, September 25, 2019, at Murdoch Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Marion, Iowa. A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Thursday, September 26, 2019, at the funeral home, officiated by Pastor Nathan Eddy, with visitation one hour prior to service. Burial will follow at Coggon Cemetery, Coggon, Iowa.
Max was born May 31, 1946, in Manchester, Iowa, to Glen “Pete” and Blanche (Bliss) Betenbender. He graduated from Coggon High School.
Max served honorably in United States Army during the Vietnam War, from 1965 to 1967.
He was united in marriage to Donna Johnson on November 7, 1970, in Independence, Iowa, at Hope Wesleyan Church.
Max was the president of Betenbender Manufacturing.
He was a member of the Coggon American Legion Post #362 and the Antique Car Club. Max collected army vehicles, including two army tanks.
He loved traveling.
Max was a friend to all, always willing to help. He will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved him.
Max is survived and lovingly remembered by his wife of 48 years, Donna Betenbender; daughter, Teresa Betenbender; two grandchildren, Courtney (David) Blaber and Cameron Klouda; three great-grandchildren, Isabella, Gabriella and Stephen Blaber; and many nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his parents; son, Ted Betenbender; brother, Larry Betenbender; and baby Blaber.
In lieu of flowers, memorials in Max’s memory may be directed to the family to be designated later.
Murdoch Funeral Home & Cremation Service - Marion.
He was buried in September 2019 at Coggon Cemetery, Coggon, Linn Co., IA, Findagrave #203170116.
Note: The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Wednesday, 03 JUN 1987; pp.18-21; (Newspapers.com):
Betenbenders Travel in Force
Max and Donna Betenbender of Coggon have no intentions of waiting until retirement to travel.
Since 1981, they have been in Berlin and Vienna, and -- along with their two children -- in Seoul, South Korea; Bristol, England; Florida; and New Zealand.
"A lot of people put off things to do when they retire. Then something happens, either financially or medically, and they can't do them. Then they don't have those memories," explains Max, who was born and Reared in Coggon.
Recently, Max, general manager of Betenbender manufacturing, suffered an on-the-job injury from which he has a 50-50 chance of recovering. He says if things had "not been favorable for us," they still would have had the memory of last summer's three-week vacation with their children. "How many people can say they spent three weeks with their kids?"
Yet, Donna, 38, says she doubts they would have done any traveling on their own. Explains her husband: "We don't like tours, visiting this place one day and that place the next."
They have done their world traveling through Friendship Force, an international organization that promotes world peace through understanding of other countries and their customs. Max calls it "a people-to-people exchange."
Max and his family heard about the organization through one of his employees, whose sister was involved in the Dubuque chapter.
Max's parents, Pete and Blanch, went to Guatemala in 1980 with the Dubuque group. "Because my folks had a very good experience, it took a lot of anxiety out of going (for us)," says Max.
Friendship Force travelers usually schedule two weeks in a country. The first week is spent with a host family. The second week also may be spent with the same family, or people may travel on their own or with other members of Friendship Force. Travelers also have the option of returning home.
During the Betenbenders' second week in Austria, their host family suggested they hire a taxi driver who knew a lot about the country. The daughter of the family, who had studied English for seven years, accompanied the group as interpreter.
"We took off and drove 800 miles in eight days," said max. The trip was mostly confined to back roads or side roads in Austria that looked promising for scenery. "We made decisions as we went," he continues.
When they stopped for the night, "our driver would go in and bargain for rooms for us," says max. "A couple of times, we went in and they said they would have charged more money if they had known we were Americans."
The trip cost each of the nine members of the group $110, plus their rooms and what they ate.
Max and Donna say that when they compared visits on the return trip to America, other Friendship Force people were envious of how they'd spent heir time -- including those who took organized tours.
But the impromptu trip around Austria isn't the only benefit the Betenbenders have seen from their Friendship Force association. "We've met some very nice people, says Donna, noting that they write to most of them.
The Betenbenders recall one friendship that had a rocky start.
The family they visited in Berlin had a teen-age daughter who seemed anti-American. "She didn't say 10 words to us," recalls Max. "She didn't want anything to do with us. She acted like we were imposing on her parents.
When Friendship Force had an exchange with Des Moines, the Berlin family spent a week there. When they arrived in Coggon for the second week of their visit, "it wasn't the same girl," continues Max. The teen-ager had undergone a complete change in her attitude. She had hugs and kisses for everyone.
Because of her positive experience in America, she returned home and talked with her friends who were anti-American, she could tell them, "We've got nice friend there who've given us a nice time," says Max.
The Betenbenders also were hosts to their English family on a tour of New England. "I wish more would come this way," says Donna wistfully.
In addition to their Friendship Force activities, the Betenbenders also provide a "getaway" retreat for a couple from Taiwan and have been hosts to a Swedish exchange student, Stefan Bjurnemark of Eslov, since August.
Donna and Max have been members of the Cedar Rapids Friendship Force since it started, although they've taken trips with the groups from Dubuque, Davenport and Portland, Ore. Max says the organization prefers to keep its groups to around 40. "If you don't go with one group, you can go with another."
When the Betenbenders go, they don't go empty handed. They fill one suitcase with handmade Iowa crafts, cookbooks (and the appropriate non-metric measuring utensils), wood items made by Max's father and toy tractors.
Max grins as he recalls his Korean host and his host's friend, both gentlemen in their 40s, rolling toy tractors back and forth to each other like enthusiastic children.
Because so many of their experiences with the group have been positive, Donna and Max would like to become more involved in the Cedar Rapids group. However, living 30 mils away limits that involvement.
"We'll try to do what we can to promote Friendship Force," says max, adding that even though he's been on five trips, "I'm ready to go again."
The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Sunday, 29 OCT 1995; p.101; (Newspapers.com):
Betenbender
COGGON -- Max and Donna Betenbender, Coggon, will observe their 25th wedding anniversary next Sunday with a reception and dance from 5:30 to 10 p.m. at Camp Wapsi Y, Coggon. The couple were married Nov. 7, 1970.
The former Donna Johnson and Max Betenbender exchanged vows at Hope Wesleyan Church, Independence.
They have two children: Ted Betenbender and Teresa (sic) Klouda, both of Coggon; and a grandchild, Courtney Klouda.
All family and friends are welcome to share this celebration. No gifts, please.
Child of Max Earl Betenbender
- Ted L. Betenbender b. 9 Oct 1972, d. 16 Jul 1999
Ted L. Betenbender
M, b. 9 October 1972, d. 16 July 1999
Ted L. Betenbender was born on 9 October 1972 at Linn Co., IA. He was the son of Max Earl Betenbender. Ted L. Betenbender died on 16 July 1999 at University Hospitals, Iowa City, Johnson Co., IA, at age 26
Obituary -- The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Saturday, 17 July 1999; Page 10; (Newspapers.com):
Ted L. Betenbender, 26, died Friday, July 16, 1999, in University Hospitals, Iowa City, after a long battle with cancer. Services: 3 p.m. Tuesday, Camp Wapsi Y, near Coggon. The Revs. Judy Gingerich, Frank Feltis, and Darrin Whiting will officiate. Friends may call from 3 to 8 p.m. Monday at Murdoch Funeral Home, Central City. Inurement will be at a later date in Coggon Cemetery.
He was born Oct. 9., 1972, the son of Max and Donna Betenbender of Coggon. Ted grew up in the Coggon area and graduated from North Linn High School in 1991. He attended Kirkwood Community College and was employed by Betenbender Manufacturing, a family-owned business in Coggon. Ted's interests were many and varied, but his real love was his motorcycles and cars. He was surrounded by his many loving and dedicated friends.
Ted is survived by his parents, Max and Donna Betenbender, a sister, Teresa Klouda and husband Dennis, a niece, Courtney; a nephew, Cameron, and grandparents Pete and Blanche Betenbender, all of Coggon; grandmother, Verna Johnson of Independence; and many other relatives and friends.
We will miss you and remember you always.
He was preceded in death by his grandfather, Cal Johnson.
Instead of flowers, the family has established a memorial fund for Pappajohn Pavilion 3 West at University Hospitals, Iowa City.
Cause of death: cancer. He was buried in July 1999 at Coggon Cemetery, Coggon, Linn Co., IA, Findagrave #118186845.
Obituary -- The Gazette, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Saturday, 17 July 1999; Page 10; (Newspapers.com):
Ted L. Betenbender, 26, died Friday, July 16, 1999, in University Hospitals, Iowa City, after a long battle with cancer. Services: 3 p.m. Tuesday, Camp Wapsi Y, near Coggon. The Revs. Judy Gingerich, Frank Feltis, and Darrin Whiting will officiate. Friends may call from 3 to 8 p.m. Monday at Murdoch Funeral Home, Central City. Inurement will be at a later date in Coggon Cemetery.
He was born Oct. 9., 1972, the son of Max and Donna Betenbender of Coggon. Ted grew up in the Coggon area and graduated from North Linn High School in 1991. He attended Kirkwood Community College and was employed by Betenbender Manufacturing, a family-owned business in Coggon. Ted's interests were many and varied, but his real love was his motorcycles and cars. He was surrounded by his many loving and dedicated friends.
Ted is survived by his parents, Max and Donna Betenbender, a sister, Teresa Klouda and husband Dennis, a niece, Courtney; a nephew, Cameron, and grandparents Pete and Blanche Betenbender, all of Coggon; grandmother, Verna Johnson of Independence; and many other relatives and friends.
We will miss you and remember you always.
He was preceded in death by his grandfather, Cal Johnson.
Instead of flowers, the family has established a memorial fund for Pappajohn Pavilion 3 West at University Hospitals, Iowa City.
Cause of death: cancer. He was buried in July 1999 at Coggon Cemetery, Coggon, Linn Co., IA, Findagrave #118186845.
Sarah Palmira Bethell
F, b. 2 February 1836, d. 8 September 1906
Sarah Palmira Bethell was born on 2 February 1836 at Dekalb Co., TN. She married Samuel Cunningham Duncan, son of Joseph Duncan and Molly Allison, on 8 September 1870 at Dekalb Co., TN. Sarah Palmira Bethell died on 8 September 1906 at Dekalb Co., TN, at age 70.
Dale Bettenner1
M, b. 26 August 1877
Dale Bettenner was born on 26 August 1877 at Mt. Morris, Ogle Co., IL.1 He was the son of John Bettenner and Virginia E. Mumma.1 Dale Bettenner lived in 1926 at Mt. Morris, Ogle Co., IL.1
Citations
- [S82] Price Genealogy, 465.
J. Ollie Bettenner1
M, b. 22 November 1880
J. Ollie Bettenner was born on 22 November 1880 at Mt. Morris, Ogle Co., IL.1 He was the son of John Bettenner and Virginia E. Mumma.1 J. Ollie Bettenner lived in 1926 at Elbert, Elbert Co., CO.1
Citations
- [S82] Price Genealogy, 465.
John Bettenner1
M, b. 21 March 1845, d. 16 February 1921
John Bettenner was born on 21 March 1845.1 He was the son of Samuel Bettenner and Rebecca (?)1 John Bettenner married Virginia E. Mumma, daughter of Jacob H. Mumma and Ann Mary Miller, on 18 February 1873, Ceremony by Rev. L. L. Lipe.1 John Bettenner died on 16 February 1921 at Mt. Morris, Ogle Co., IL, at age 75.1
Children of John Bettenner and Virginia E. Mumma
- Dale Bettenner1 b. 26 Aug 1877
- J. Ollie Bettenner1 b. 22 Nov 1880
Citations
- [S82] Price Genealogy, 465.
Samuel Bettenner1
M
Child of Samuel Bettenner and Rebecca (?)
- John Bettenner+1 b. 21 Mar 1845, d. 16 Feb 1921
Citations
- [S82] Price Genealogy, 465.